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Gaining Some Perspective

by Bret Evans 07/07/2019

The road to a healthy self-image is not always a forward moving journey. At times you may have to take a step or two backward to gain perspective on an area of struggle. To take even one thought and replace it with one that helps you carry forward, is a victory. Life is hard enough out there without your own brain working against you too. Shaping the voice, you hear most often, your internal voice provides the opportunity to live out a healthier mental journey. 

What You Think is What You Get

How you see yourself affects not only how you interact with the world around you, but how the world reacts to you. The things you tell yourself cause you to grab, or pass, what life has to offer. Beliefs about your abilities or your worthiness can lead you down paths that build up your self-image or have you running away. Unlike magnets that need the opposite charges to attach, an internal voice that is negative actually attracts more negative thoughts resulting in a less than favorable outlook on life. Whereas, the positive self-talk and affirmations build self-confidence that the outside world responses to often, in kind.

Gaining Some Perspective

When you catch yourself coloring your world with the darkest of colors, elevate the contents of what you are telling yourself. Often these messages are based on a negative experience or learned response. Sometimes asking yourself may not be the best way to identify these thought patterns. You may need the perspective of a trusted friend or family member. Seeking out a mental health professional can lead to helpful insights that you may not have been aware of before. Once you have identified unhealthy thought patterns, you are now able to replace those with a tone and message that can help you see life differently. 

Build a Better Habit

Putting a new tone to your inner voice will take effort and practice. You may want to write out some of those new messages to have them handy when you need to reinforce the new way of talking to yourself. You can also print out those things that keep you focused on where you desire this new perspective to take you. Steering your mental attitude when life throws you a curveball is a curial aspect of building a healthy inner voice. 

 Try this; put up an affirmation where you can see it several times during the day and encourage your inner voice along the way.

About the Author
Author

Bret Evans

Bret D. Evans is a real estate industry veteran, a 22-year successful career in an incredibly competitive environment.  As a native to the Bay Area and a homeowner in San Mateo County, his knowledge of the Peninsula’s residential real estate market is extensive and unparalleled.

Bret prides himself on giving his clients the most precise and up-to-date feedback on the state of the market, market trends, and comparable sales and property values; and providing clients with a realistic outlook on what they can expect to achieve in today’s market.

His many years of experience purchasing, owning, selling and renting properties, allows Bret to provide exceptional insight and knowledge at every level of the real estate transaction.  He has built a reputation for providing trustworthy, well-researched advice to his clients and is passionate about providing the best possible service.

Clients choose to work with Bret for his full-service, ethics, experience, and expertise.  He consistently displays his ability to satisfy clients in the buying and selling of their homes. His strong base of loyal repeat customers is the reason why Bret has been successful in the real estate industry.

In an ever-changing market, Bret is with you every step of the way!